ABCD Of Marriage For Married People And Singles By Alph Lukau
• Affirm who you and your spouse are in Christ
• Build a foundation of love and trust: Never make spying your hobby.
• Communicate openly and often in words and actions.
• Determine responsibility clearly and play your roles.
• Expect the best of each other but believe that no marriage is perfect.
• Forgive frequently and completely. Never keep bringing up the past mistakes.
• Give generously and wholeheartedly. Pamper each other with gifts.
• Handle finances wisely. Never hide your financial details and dealings.
• Invest in quality time with each other. Children will not take the attention of your spouse
• Judge not: judgmental spirit and baseless accusations kill love very fast.
• Keep physically fit: Men look good, women women look good too and both should avoid being overweight. Eat and drink wisely.
• Love unconditionally: prove to your partner that your love is true and perfect.
• Make your careers count: both of your must try to have work or a business.
• Nurture a positive home atmosphere: make your home a paradise on earth
• Open up your heart: never be secretive or carry grudges and bitterness.
• Pray with and for each other consistently
• Quote what God says about marriage: enjoy NOT endure or escape
• Reach out to others especially the children and the in-laws
• Share your feelings honestly and frequently
• Thank each other: have an attitude of gratitude
• Understand each other’s God-given gifts
• Value each other intensely: Never compare your spouse to another person
• Work together to resolve conflicts: be the first to forgive and say I AM SORRY
• Xplain expectations to each other
• Yearn to be all you can be together
• Zero in on Christian Values