What Words Are You Speaking Over Your Kids?
What Words Are You Speaking Over Your Kids? Finding love and getting married is the dream of every young person in this world.
God wants the best for us, and he will give us the best if we trust him. There are over 80 million families around the world, and they are still growing.
Getting married and starting a family is not enough because you must have the right mindset. Marriage is not always sweet and smooth, so be prepared yourself in the Lord.
One of the biggest lies that many of us have believed is that marriage should be perfect. There are going to be moments of fighting and misunderstanding, but control your emotions.
Our problem is that many of us lack emotional intelligence, but we can learn it if we want to. Being emotionally intelligent is so important because it helps us relate better to people.
Everything will not always go the way that we desire in life, and not everyone will treat us well. We don’t have control over certain things in life, so it is best if we leave them to God.
The way that people are going to treat us is not in our control, and our partner will not always be in a happy mood.
In marriage and relationships, it is best if we learn how to relate to one another.
How to Treat Our Kids
Note: The reason we started with marriage is that without marriage or a relationship, there will be no kids.
If we don’t have the right mindset, that will affect the way we treat our kids. There are thousands of parents in the world who speak bad words about their kids.
The truth is that children can be annoying and disrespectful, but we must be careful with our words. Every day that we speak negatively about our kids, that shapes their future.
Don’t let your kids push you to the point of losing your mind and causing you to speak badly. Make sure, as a parent, that you are teaching your kids the right things in life.
Children will learn some bad things from their friends at school or church, but keep teaching them right. When you lead your kids down the right path when they’re older, they’ll be grateful.
Everything might look like a failing path, but keep doing the right thing. People are going to remind you that there is something wrong with your kids, but don’t speak badly about them.
Teach them about Jesus Christ and morals in life so that they can make the right decisions in the future. We should not allow our kids to go out into the world and learn bad things there.
The right place for them to learn is at home and in churches from the preacher. Pay attention to the type of friends they are currently keeping and correct them if they are a bad influence on them.
Don’t be afraid to speak up if you see your kids learning bad things from other kids. Keep quiet, and pretending not to notice them changing will make them shy away from good things.
Your kids may claim that you are strict with them, but don’t give up. Just make sure that you are not saying bad things about their lives.
What are your kids watching, and who are they following on social media? You may not be able to monitor them 24/7, but you have a closer relationship with your kids.
When you are your kids best friends, they will feel comfortable around you. Just because you are their best friend, don’t be afraid of correcting them and teaching them the right things.
Don’t keep quiet because you want your kids to love you, so speak up when it’s needed.