How to love difficult people unconditionally
How to love difficult people unconditionally: We are all familiar with the word love, but we are not practicing it enough in our lives. To love is really hard, and sometimes to love can get us hurt.
There are people who will hurt us intentionally, but we are to let go. We are not to hold anything against one another, for God is the one to fight for us.
To love does not mean that we should allow people to walk over us. For us to care for one another, we are doing unto the Lord, not unto man.
When people hurt you intentionally and continuously, it’s time for us to stay away from them. We are to love difficult people from a faraway place because they can destroy us mentally.
Remember that loving difficult people unconditionally doesn’t mean tolerating abuse or accepting harmful behavior. Loving difficult people unconditionally can be challenging, but it’s possible with patience, empathy, and intentional actions.
God has instructed us to love everyone around us because he has loved us too. Some parents who have difficult kids find it hard to deal with them, but give it to God, and he will work on them.
Pray for them.
Sometimes the best way for us to love difficult people is to pray for them so that God can deal with them. Our heavenly father has the ability to turn the heart of stone into that of flesh.
As children of God, it is not our job to change anyone but that of the Holy Spirit. We are instructed by God to tell them about Jesus Christ and also pray for them so that they can change.
When we are praying for our kids, spouse, siblings, and friends to change, it will not happen overnight. Our Lord will work in them little by little, and he will not stop.
God loves every single one of us, and it is not his desire that any of us should perish. The enemy will do his best to steal us away from God and those we love.
We Have To Behave Right
Our father is the Lord, the head of love, and he wants us to dwell in that. Going around the world and judging people is not the solution, but showing kindness can change people.
Preaching the word of God is not enough; we have to show it through our behaviors. Our behaviors are really important, and we, as children of God, are being watched by the world.
Everyone is looking at us, so we are representing God all the time. The Holy Spirit will help us all the time to behave right, not by our own strength.
As children of God, we are not allowed to behave like the rest of the world. There are certain characters and behaviors that are expected of us as God’s representatives.
Celebrities are being emulated by people because people find them interesting. When our behavior is like that of Jesus Christ, people will start to copy us.
We have to pray that God will use us to advance his kingdom and save his children. There is nothing impossible for God to do.
Remember that loving difficult people unconditionally does not imply condoning abuse or accepting bad behavior.
It’s about engaging them with empathy, understanding, and a desire to maintain your own well-being.