Never Beg To Be Liked By Anyone

Never Beg To Be Liked By Anyone: Being around people who don’t like you will drain you at some point. As children of God that were born in Christian homes, we are taught to love everyone.

Showing love to everyone is good, but we have to pay attention to know if they want it. Going around and begging people to love us will only leave us open to emotional vampires.

This can make us do anything (even sin) to please those people. Saul in the Bible displeased God because he wanted to please the people of Israel.

We all know the right thing to do in life, so let us do it without trying to please other people. God should be the only person that we obey because his love is everlasting.

Your friends might wake up tomorrow and hate everything about you, but God will never do that. If you are living right that someone or group of people hates you, that’s not your problem.

Your main purpose is to do everything that can bring glory to God. Our heavenly father is the Alpha and Omega, so our loyalty should lay with him forever.

Things People Might Hate You About

Reminder: This article is not to encourage you to be isolated and stay away from people. The purpose is to enlighten you that it is okay not to be liked by everyone.

As children of God, we must train ourselves to do the right thing even when we don’t want to. We are being watched by everyone—God, the Devil, and humans—so let us do it right.

Doing the right thing or behaving right is not something we can do alone. The Lord has given us the gift of the Holy Spirit to guide us through life in everything.

Having Boundaries: Setting boundaries in life can trigger a lot of people because they don’t like it. It’s okay to be nice and kind, but it’s also important to have boundaries because if you don’t, people will hurt you. Have things that you are comfortable letting people know about you and things they can have.
Speaking Up: The moment you start speaking up for yourself, many people will see you as a proud person. Saying yes to people all the time will lead you to a point where you hate yourself. If your friend invites you to an ungodly party, is it okay to say no?
Focusing on yourself: Make it your mission to focus on yourself and do things that will make you grow. This is not about being selfish; it is about putting yourself first, and those that love to gossip will hate you for that. The word of God told us not to engage in gossip, so let us obey him.
Improving Yourself: It is so important for us as humans to always look at our lives and find areas that need improvement. The world has lied to us that we should “Never Change.” Being on the same level will damage us. People that used to know the old you will hate you for trying to improve, and they call you fake.

The solution is self-love.

Most of our problems come from the fact that we don’t love ourselves. We can’t give what we don’t have to other people.

Someone who doesn’t have internal peace can’t be peaceful with people around them. Before we can see the changes in the world, it has to come from us first.

The word of God told us to love others as “we have loved ourselves.” Many Christians claim that they love God, but they don’t love people around them because they don’t love themselves.

So do things that will help you to grow and become better in life. focusing on your growth will make you not to beg for likeness.

There is so much potential in us if only we focus on God and ourselves.